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Safe dating

Rules for safe online dating (and offline)

To stay safe and avoid negative phenomena in the online or offline world, follow these guidelines.

Always think about your safety when using erotic dating.
These are tips that you should take into account. This is not a 100% guaranteed instruction.

What are the situations that you report immediately?

1. Requests for money or property with more or less suspicious reason - serious illness, care for relatives, etc.
2. Requests to send illegal erotic content and any deviations - child pornography, violence, sex with animals, etc.
3. Requests for contact with a minor
4. Annoying message (insults, hate reports, racism, threats, etc.) has been sent to you
5. Offers to sell or use drugs
   
   SERIOUS CASES REPORT IMMEDIATELY TO US OR TO THE AUTHORITIES!

If you think that someone within SEXOMAT is violating the rules of operation and order and directly or indirectly affects you, please contact us immediately .

Offline behavior, meeting, date, etc.
Any first meeting should be surrounded by your caution.
Follow these rules for such meetings.

1. Spend a little more time before you decide to meet someone in person. Don't go to a chat after a few swap sentences. It's ideal for a specific user to find out the basic info to get an idea of who they are. Do not discuss it in an erotic spirit. Talk about personal life, hobbies, work. If the first stage of the acquaintance was all right and you "sat down" and are convinced that the person or persons concerned are in your opinion, then go to the first meeting.
   
   
2. Before you go to a meeting, tell someone in your area where you are going - surely you have a friend you can trust. We encourage everyone to tell their friend the exact location of your meeting. Likewise, write a message to a friend if you change location and move for some reason.
   
   
3. NEVER plan your first meeting outside of public places. In any case, don't be invited to anyone's home. Make an appointment in a cafe. If the counterpart is really a man who has no bad intentions, then he certainly won't have a problem with it. At the first meeting, continue the conversation that was preceded by some electronic communication. Talk about everything and think about who is sitting opposite you during the discussion. Ask, don't be shy to ask for a bit more details like the job in question, what he enjoys, where he lives, etc.
   
   
4. The meeting at the cafe went okay? Want to go for a walk? Great! But again, in any case, you must not go for a walk in the abandoned parts of the parks, the forest (even if there are dog owners, etc.). Always stick to public places where at least a little more people walk than in such a park. Choose squares, sports grounds, etc.
   
   
5. Rules for meeting at night are even "stricter" - do not go anywhere where few people, no traffic around, dark corners etc ..
   
   
6. Escorting home, to the door - even if escorting home is gentelmanic and in a way romantic, so in this case it may be a relatively risky phase of the meeting. Be aware that if you allow a person to escort to the house in which you live, you will be sure to tell the person where you live.
   
   
7. Accompany your escorts or even visit home only after several meetings. You must be absolutely sure that the person in question is a really normal and decent person.

We believe these few points will help SEXOMAT users to get the most out of online safety.

If you have any questions, please contact us using the contact form .